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THE BASICS
Focus on character. Things like plot, structure, theme, making sense (!) are extras to me. I just want complicated, fully realized, damaged, imperfect, interesting characters doing things. Any things. It can be grocery shopping, seriously. I care about character.
And relationships! Complicated, fully realized, damaged, imperfect, interesting relationships involving two or more people. Romance, friendship, family, found family, all of it. I love best: siblings (birth, adoptive, as close as), BFFs who love each other, people who belong together but are afraid, people who are horrible together but can’t quit, casual relationships that turn unexpectedly deep, soulmates. I love unresolved sexual tension. Two people flirting in a grocery store, seriously. I care about feelings.
My perfect scenario for pretty much any fandom is: everyone in the group has to live together for some reason and they all squabble about dishes and TV rights and sneak around into each others bedrooms in the middle of the night.
Please feel free to ask if you have any additional questions.
THINGS I ESPECIALLY LIKE
curtain fic
introspective character/relationship analysis masquerading as fic
family, Found Family, Team-As-Family
kid fic/legacy
road trips
angst and fluff
hidden identities
heists
elaborate descriptions of fashion
heists
elaborate descriptions of fashion
THINGS I ESPECIALLY LIKE IN RELATIONSHIPS
touchy-feely physicality (but vanilla sex)
Unresolved Sexual Tension
Besties with Benefits
Grew Up Together
Imzadi (First Love is True Love)
Powerful Woman/Infatuated Subordinate
Lopsided Balance of Feelings
Only Happy When It Rains (ships that have an element of tragedy)
They Are the Hunters We Are the Foxes (ships that have an element of danger e.g. spies in love)
Enemies to Lovers
Courtly Love
Divorced But We Share Custody of the Relationship
Additional notes on my shipping preferences can be found HERE
Divorced But We Share Custody of the Relationship
Additional notes on my shipping preferences can be found HERE
DO NOT WANT
PWP, smut — unless specifically requested, graphic description of sexual acts just pulls me completely out of the story, I prefer it simple and suggestive.
BDSM
alphaa-beta-omega
parent/child incest
mpreg
cisbending (trans or NB is fine)
horror, gore
graphic depictions of violence
action oriented plots
character or relationship bashing
ART LIKES
Fairy tales and fantasy
Mundane/Modern AUs
"After the War" old age/retirement, or kids/legacy
Something that will inspire me to write a story about the couple
Tropes
VID LIKES
vids that ask questions
character or relationship explorations
family/found family/team as family
unresolved sexual tension
parallels
quick cuts
intercut dialogue is cool, with the visual matching or not, but I do not like when characters’ lips move without the accompanying dialogue
You can browse my public playlists on Spotify to get an idea of my musical tastes.
I like:
film scores
classical ballet
soft rock
indie rock
alt rock
riot grrrl and grunge
emo
pop punk
indie pop
electropop
electronica
electronic rock
hip hop
kpop, jpop, anime pop, vocaloid
celtic
showtunes
modern country
rap
I do not like:
heavy metal
hard rock
boy bands
chants
choral
opera
jazz
easy listening
classic country
big band
intercut dialogue is cool, with the visual matching or not, but I do not like when characters’ lips move without the accompanying dialogue
You can browse my public playlists on Spotify to get an idea of my musical tastes.
I like:
film scores
classical ballet
soft rock
indie rock
alt rock
riot grrrl and grunge
emo
pop punk
indie pop
electropop
electronica
electronic rock
hip hop
kpop, jpop, anime pop, vocaloid
celtic
showtunes
modern country
rap
I do not like:
heavy metal
hard rock
boy bands
chants
choral
opera
jazz
easy listening
classic country
big band
AUs, CROSSOVERS, AND FUSIONS
I love it! As long as the characters and relationships are recognizable, feel free to play with setting. Mundane and historic AUs are fun and I love a good multiverse. For these purposes my fandoms are listed here. Please do not set the work in one I am not familiar with.
Please feel free to ask if you have any additional questions.